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trangminh
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ID 16390
Date: 11/18/2007
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Goodbye my friend. You had been the one for me.
I've had the longest day of my life.
It's 2.00am now. You say you don't love me and after all, it's a game you have been playing, with my heart. How cruel, you are. How pathetic and stupid, I am. I've read a this sentence somewhere I can't remember: Your IQ can be 150 but you might be the stupiest lover... Yeah, I am...
You said I didn't know how to love someone. I failed. I failed with my own.
I was so wrong and blinded with the wonderful moment you created. I ignored what others told me, even what you told me. You know, I just want to be with you. Bet you never felt this way.
Now you are sad? I am so sorry for that, but you don't deserve this sadness. All is my mistake.
Forget me but forget me not. You always say I am so contradictory. I am telling you, I am not. The world is not back and white, I will forget all the sadness but keep in my heart a perfect image of you, peacefully and beautifully. That's my forget and not-forget.
I wish you the best thing in life. Smile will come back to you and one day, someone better than me will come and lift you up from the lonliness you are trapped in.
Goodbye
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Reply:
subzero12i
member
REF: 97042
Date: 11/18/2007
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"Your IQ can be 150 but you might be the stupiest lover...". I like this idiom.
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Reply:
sontiny
member
REF: 97046
Date: 11/18/2007
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Hi my friend, I've read your story. It's very sad and tearful. To be frank, I am sorry to hear that and can sympathy with ur sorrow. At the moment, I am gonna give u some recommendations. As u know, love is made of understanding, sympathy and share between 2 people. And I am sure u dont understand him much about his characters. Maybe he is a womanizer, maybe he's just played around u and then he left u like the way u told us. On the other hand, please dont take it on him, u gotta blame yourself for trusting him as an innocent, gullible girl and taking no account of ur friend's advice. I do understand how u r feeling disappointed and upset about him. But please get him out of ur mind right now and look ahead to a bright future. If u go out more often and meet other guys, I am definitely sure it completely slip your mind.U know, each person has their own sufferance but it is the best for them to forget and go on living as well as carefree, lively, outgoing people. It might bring joy and excitement to u and help u out. Dont worry, u r still young enough to look for a kind-hearted guy like me :). I am just kidding, dont be angry with me. After all, I wish u could find another guy who is suited to u sooner or later.
Regards
Son_tiny
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Reply:
trangminhdao
member
REF: 97047
Date: 11/19/2007
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Hello son,
You are right, 90% right about my lack of understanding in him. I misunderstood everything and then his kindness to me just hurts me so much. But 10% wrong is I don't blame him. It's all my fault that now he is suffering unnecessary depression as he has hurt one of his friend. I said he was cruel just to protect my dignity. But after all this time, I realise it is so ridiculous of myself...
I will look at the future, son, as I am an optimistic person. Actually I did go shopping this afternoon and I have learnt a new lesson which is money can never buy happiness back (it actually makes us more upset as money keeps running out of the wallet!!! ^^)
Thanks a whole lot for your advice. I have read it three times and I will think more about what you wrote. Thanks for replying.
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Reply:
tammyph
member
REF: 97056
Date: 11/19/2007
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"out of sight, out of mind", it's good for u now. I'm sorry if I used that idiom not to be suitable in this case. However, in my opinion, you should let him go out of ur mind, out of ur sight and everything about him. You'll feel better tomorrow with ur work, ur friends, ur new friends, ur family ect. One day, a lovely and warm-hearted guy will come and take care of u much and love u with his true heart and true love. Good luck and Good day! Best wishes for u, my friend.
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Reply:
ghost
member
REF: 97066
Date: 11/19/2007
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................ cannot sleep well too, Yahoo.........
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Reply:
trangminhdao
member
REF: 97067
Date: 11/19/2007
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uhm, tammyph,
Your advice is really what I need as by now I don't know what to do. I am actually doing against what you say about: Out of sight, out of mind.
Maybe I am doing wrong but I really want to see him happy as my own need a redemption. He has changed since that day, becoming pretty rude and unfriendly. Tammyph, am I doing wrong? Should I stop watching him secretly or as you say, let everything of him go? I desperatly don't know what to do........
I just can not stand the way he is now. Maybe one day, when he is okie, I will not step in his life anymore. In the future, not now.
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