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namthao
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ID 16204
Date: 10/14/2007
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LYING
Chào anh chị em,
Không biết anh chị như thế nào, riêng tôi đôi lúc tôi vẫn nói láo. mặc dù cách nói láo của tôi dễ thương, nhưng nói láo là điều không tốt rồi, so please don't try it at home or you risk your own. Kể ra tôi chưa phải là chuyên nghiệp nói láo, nhưng có lẽ trong tương lai cũng là một cái nghề "nhà báo nói láo ăn tiền" mà tôi nghỉ tôi sẽ sống với nó. Giờ thì tôi đang tập sự với cái nghề của tôi :) :) :).
LYING
Lying should be a bad behavior, but people lie to other people because they want to hide their mistakes, intend to take advantage of or to use people for their goals, and it usually happens in the politic, business, market, and relationships. Whatever it is, lying is not good, and it usually comes up with negative consequence. Most parents encourage their children to tell the truth for whatever events, and most people hate those whom are liars, and the liars may be conducted into a crime, and they should be punished or deserved for what they did. However, most negative events sometime still turn into positive results.
When I was in the tenth grade, I was appointed assistant student leader of my class, and I would have responsibility for study of my class. I was so surprised when Lan, our student leader asked me to help her, moreover, a lot of students agreed with her decision. Personally, I was not good in management or in fact, I wasn’t a person for meetings. Otherwise, the only thing that I loved to do was playing soccer and writing. Unfortunately, I now had to do for what other students and Lan wanted and needed me to do. As an assignment from Lan, I had to go there and go here for meetings, and other times, I had to do this and do that. I remembered when Mr. Franklin Roosevelt was the president of the United States, he said something like that "I live in the house built by people whom I owe their trust". Of course, I was not him, but at least, I had to try my best to help other students when they might put the (maybe very a little) trust on me, and I also learned how to "put myself in other people’s shoes" too. Unfortunately, it seemed she didn’t satisfy or appreciate of my work. One day, she called me up and cried when students in my class didn’t study as she wanted. I asked myself that what I supposed to do? I was not God, nor could I do a magic. I was tired and got sick of her.
Tuan, also indicating her assistance in labor of our class, came up and complained to me sometime ago.
"Why did you accept a job that helped her? Because of your acceptance, I also accepted too. what about if we resigned?"
"Oh! Come on, I am really glade to hear that, but never blame on me, please. Whatever you agreed to do, you decided it yourself. The reason I accepted her assignment because I wanted to take the opportunity to challenge my responsibility for helping students of our class, and it was very hard to say no to a pretty girl. Resign? It is an easy way, but not this time. This time we have to deal and live with it."
"Pretty girl?" Tuan laughed.
"A fact, she is not a pretty girl, but in my sight, all girls are pretty and attractive, and there is nothing wrong with that."
Whatever I said, Tuan still continued laughing and I also laughed with him too.
Apparently, Lan looked OK., studied hard, and got the highest grade most of the time in our class. Otherwise, she was a determined and dominated girl. Her face looked so cool, so she didn’t have many friends.
Normally, Lan got in our class 10 minutes early before our class started. As a setting, Tuan and I were standing in the hallway, talking about something, and waiting for her coming. When she was almost past us, I talked to Tuan in whisper:
"Wow! she looks really nice today"
After saying, I caught her glancing at me, and her face became red.
I winked at Tuan "please don’t laugh"
Another time, I told Tuan that she looked like a fashion model, then she smiled at me. Then later, I didn’t have to tell Tuan anything, but she smiled with me when she met us.
"Wow! I thought she loves you".
"Oh come on! I am not a lucky guy as you thought".
After that, our class system worked smoothly. Lan seemed more easier, and happier when she had worked with me. I knew this was the first time I lied, and the first time I did then many things came up later. I did not know I was a good guy or not, but at least, I just tried to make the beautiful color for her and other people if I could.
To prefer another side of lying, most people always expect to hear about the truth, and this was the truth. I remembered one of my teachers was very active. He never smoked, but played sports. His appearance looked about 40 years old, and he seemed healthy to me. During his class, he worked very hard and he was never absent from any class. One day, he went to a doctor for regular checking up, and after diagnosing, the doctor told him that he could not live longer than three more months. That was the truth, and I didn’t know if you like to hear it or not, but not me. I did not need a doctor to tell me how long I could live nor did I need a doctor to tell me when I said farewell to all.
Finally, the truth and lies can always give positive and negative results, which are dependent on how people carry out and desire it. Personally, lying was the way that I just added up the beautiful color into a black and white picture, made the picture look glorious and attractive, and expected the joyful and peaceful feeling in both pictures and viewers, and that was. Otherwise, I learn to accept anything that happens to me. It doesn’t matter if I like it or not, I always consider everything is a gift or a rose. Some people say a rose is red, other people say a rose looks pink , whatever color is, it is always dependent on people’s sights and desires, and I should know or learn how to enjoy it although red and pink are not my favorite color. In addition, in this world, I have to live with many kinds of people, which look like me in the water current of a river. Whatever direction of the water current is, I must follow and live with it and believe that it is just normal life, so whenever people lie to hurt me, surely I don’t get surprised.
Nam Thao
góp
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96538
Date: 10/15/2007
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wow, làm nghề nhà báo thì hok dc viết sai chính tả đâu đó, với lại coi chừng bj bệnh nghề nghiệp (jống ghost): "liar". :D..vậy Lan of namthao là lớp trưởng hả??, giống teen đó..hehehe
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Reply:
sinnombre
member
REF: 96543
Date: 10/15/2007
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Awesome!
It really is a very nice, beautiful, interesting piece of writing.
Hey bro,
Please do not tell anyone, but I don't think all lies are bad though.
When you tell a lady that she is beautiful she may overlook your mistakes and I know for sure that women love to hear "white lies" bro :-).....
"Yeah! Lie to me, but tell me you love me!" :-)
http://www.answers.com/white+lie&r=67
white lie (idiom):
An untruth told to spare feelings or from politeness, as in She asked if I liked her dress, and of course I told a white lie. This term uses white in the sense of "harmless." [First half of 1700s]
Idioms information about white lie
The American Heritage® Dictionary of Idioms by Christine Ammer. Copyright © 1997 by The Christine Ammer 1992 Trust. Published by Houghton Mifflin Company. All rights reserved.
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When you meet a worthy person, seek to become his equal.
When you meet a fool, look within and examine yourself. (Confucius)
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96545
Date: 10/16/2007
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Chào anh Sinnombre,
Thank you so much for your great support and your great tip, especially I love white lie idiom that Anh gave me "An untruth told to spare feelings or from politeness" I think this is a great bible too.
Again, Cám ơn anh nhiều và chúc anh vui vẽ.
Nam Thao
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96546
Date: 10/16/2007
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Cuteteen Em,
Lớp trưỡng? Wow! chắc là oai phong lắm rồi hén? Có another Nam Thao in your class chưa? nếu người nào thường bị kiễm điễm nhiều, và nói cho em biết how pretty you are, đó là another Nam Thao. Nhớ là nhẹ tay một chút cho người ta nhờ nghe cô bé :) :)
"Lan of namthao" sao lại Lan of Nam Thao? vậy là thêm một người tử tế với anh. sau nầy trong một câu chuyện nào đó và nếu anh nhắc nhở một số cô gái đã học chung lớp, chung trường với anh, những người đó có lẽ anh phải làm một cái list, lúc đó hy vọng rằng sẽ có người viết "list of Nam Thao" để dền bù lại những ngày cô độc. :) :) :) Thank you in advance hé. Chúc em Vui vẽ,
Anh,
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96547
Date: 10/16/2007
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hahha..làm lớp trưởng vui lắm áh, cầm đầu tụi nó đi quậy tùm lum, hồi bữa chủ nhật teen cho tụi nó đi chơi đó, đi chèo xuồng hái sen, hái khóm (dĩ nhiên là hái lén òy)..."how pretty u r" teen nghe hoài..kakkak (đang ôm bom)..mai mốt namthao viết bài co' tên teen đi, teen nói "teen của namthao" lun...kha`kha`kha`
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96553
Date: 10/17/2007
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Wow! look at you. phải nói là quá dử. cái nầy nếu nói là lớp trưởng cũng chưa có xứng lắm, mà phải nói là "nử chúa rừng xanh" mới đúng : :) :). Nử Chúa có biết khiêu vũ "bắt tay nhau nắm tay nhau, ta cùng nhau múa mời" hôn? điệu vũ nầy rất vui, ngày xưa anh rất thích. thỉnh thoãng anh thấy trong những film cowboy Mỹ họ có dance điệu vũ nầy. Em, tuổi học trò có những lúc như vậy, thì mình mới có những kỹ niệm khó quên sau nầy. hoặc khi reunion mình sẽ có nhiều chuyện để tâm sự. ngày xưa, sau khi xong lớp 11, lớp anh có đi vào những vùng quê xa xôi hẽo lánh để dạy học phá dốt và bình dân học vụ. Chuyến đi nầy rất vui và mang nhiều ý nghĩa. sau nầy có dịp anh sẽ kể cho em nghe.
Chuyến nầy nông trại khóm của ba má anh chắc là tiêu hết rồi :) :) .
Chúc em vui vẽ, nhớ là "quậy" ít lại cho ba má anh nhờ.
Anh,
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96556
Date: 10/17/2007
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wow..vậy khi nào teen có dịp nghe "namthao của teen" kể chuyện ta???...ac.ac.ac.ủa? ở rạch já cũng có khóm nữa ha??, teen cũng tính đi xuống wậy khóm của namthao nhưng hok bít nhà, sợ bị bắt cóc lem'==> hok đi...^_^
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96558
Date: 10/17/2007
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Em nè, "ở rạch já cũng có khóm nữa ha?" chồi! chồi! vậy là còn nhiều thiếu xót. Em biết hôn, anh nghe nói những người muốn nhập quốc tịch mỹ mà người ta hỏi về nước mỹ nếu không biết thì không được nhập tịch. Còn em, không biết khóm "tắc cậu" nỗi tiếng nhứt ở Rạch Giá, anh nghỉ chắc là khó được quốc tịch VN. May thay, em đã lỡ ở VN rồi thành ra được consider là Vietnamese đó, chớ hông thôi hổng biết ở đâu nữa :) :) :).
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96562
Date: 10/17/2007
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ây da..quê rồi nghen..teen có bít đâu, namthao có dẫn teen xuống rạch giá bao giờ đâu, sao teen bít dc chứ!!!..*_^..vậy namthao bít ở chỗ teen nơi nào trồng khóm hok?...ehehhehe..trả lời đi, trả lời hok dc là hok fai vietnamese đó nha
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96572
Date: 10/18/2007
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wow! thua người ta rồi tìm cách gỡ : ) :). chắc chắn là anh không biết rồi. Tuy nhiên dù có thua, người ta đã có giấy CMND từ lâu rồi. cái nầy có thể gọi là senior Vietnamese nếu so sánh vời người khác :) :). Em, lúc nầy học hành ổn định chưa? làm lớp trưỡng nhớ không được "đì" người ta lắm nghe hôn. các cô làm lớp trưỡng dĩ nhiên là anh phãi ngán rồi, nếu không, người ta hay khóc lằm :) :). nhớ có lần có người xưng "em" với anh. Her sweet sound làm anh cứ ngỡ . . . là thật. nhưng lâu rồi cô ta vẫn biền biệt. em có biết cô ta hôn? send my best regard to her.
Chúc em vui vẽ, :) :)
Anh
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96575
Date: 10/18/2007
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hahhah..thua thì fải tìm cách gỡ chứ, vậy là cũng có ng` hok bít mà hok chịu nhận kìa...mà teen đâu có đì j ai đâu, cũng hok khóc lun, bj jờ khóc là xưa rồi, chửi tụi nó sợ hơn..hehhehe...cô ta nói chỉ là her words thôi, lam sao namthao bít là sweet sound dc chứ, reply cho teen ma` "send best regard to her" nghen!!!!!!
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96586
Date: 10/19/2007
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Em, Vậy là dử thiệt đó nghe. "cô ta nói chỉ là her words thôi" chỉ là her words thôi sao? Vậy mà có một người cứ ngỡ her sound, thành ra "ngày ăn đêm ngũ" thật là tội nghiệp ông ta quá phải hôn? Next time, I wonder would you please do me a favor that tell him "this is word, but not sound" :) :) you know what? you may save his life, but you never know :) :)
Chúc em vui vẽ,
Anh
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96589
Date: 10/19/2007
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Namthao Anh,
choy` choy`, thấy gúm wa' đi, làm j mà serious thế, his life thì tự mà save, ghê wa''..í ẹ..^_*..
Em
p/s, this is her sound, and her words too...hi vọng có người đọc xong sẽ " ngày ngủ đêm ăn" lun
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96599
Date: 10/19/2007
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Wow! Cám ơn nhiều hén. chỉ cần nghe như vậy chắc là không cần ăn ngũ một tuần lễ cũng thấy vui :) :). Em biết hôn, lâu rồi anh có một điều thắc mắc và muốn hỏi lớp trưỡng anh, tuy nhiên tính tình "chicken", nhút nhát của anh thành ra không dám hỏi, rồi thời gian cứ đi qua, giờ muốn hỏi cũng không còn dịp mà hỏi. Anh hy vọng dù lớp trưỡng Lan hay Cuteteen đôi khi có những cái giống nhau. cái thắc mắc của anh là " anh học không giỏi, nhưng vẫn được chọn làm lớp phó học tâp, có phải là tại gì anh là một người đẹp trai lắm phải không?" Nhớ là để anh chạy thiệt xa hoặc tìm nơi ẩn trốn rối hả trã lời OK? Thank in advance :) :)
Chúc em vui vẽ cuối tuần
Anh,
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Reply:
cuteteen
member
REF: 96602
Date: 10/19/2007
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ây da...có quân đánh bom liều chết của irac đi lạc wa đây rồi, ghê wá đi...teen kêu namthao send hình wa cho teen chiêm ngưỡng mà namthao có chịu đâu chứ, sao teen bít đường nhận xét dc...teen cũng có thắc mắc nữa ah', sao đó jờ teen học toàn con gái làm lớp phó học tập không ah`??..
viết có mấy chữ sai hoài, bùn ghê, vui "vẻ" not "vẽ"
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Reply:
mermaild
member
REF: 96603
Date: 10/19/2007
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Hello Sinnombre,
This is Sweet Rose. Hope you still remember :))) I totally agree with you about "lying is not a bad thing in some cases." Yes, I have to admit that i do lie to ppl too but i have to think twice before i do so. More importantly, I hope you guys think TWICE before telling something untruth. Anyway, it is good to hear from you again. Take care
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Reply:
sinnombre
member
REF: 96610
Date: 10/20/2007
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Sweet Rose dearie dear,
Oh, yes of course I remember you dearie :-)! How have you been?
My sweet dearie! To me, honesty is the best policy, and lying is never ever good! However, I wouldn't mind telling "white lies" to people who are on their death-bed and especially to women 'cause I know women love to hear them :).
Likewise! It's so nice to hear from you dearie. You take very good care of yourself huh!
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When you meet a worthy person, seek to become his equal.
When you meet a fool, look within and examine yourself. (Confucius)
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Reply:
mermaild
member
REF: 96621
Date: 10/20/2007
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Dear Sinnombre,
Thank you for your sweet words. Don't work too hard and keep up w/the good work in the chat room. Your contribution is very valuable for those who neeed it. Thank you for looking out for them. YOU ARE AWESOME. HOPE 2 CHAT W/U AGAIN SOON.
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Reply:
namthao
member
REF: 96628
Date: 10/21/2007
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Cuteteen Em,
Anh đã posted new topict. Nhớ không được cười à nhe.
Anh
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Reply:
sinnombre
member
REF: 96639
Date: 10/21/2007
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Mermaild dearie dear,
I'm glad that my "style" has reached some appreciative eyes :-). Please know that, beyond words, "I am flattered and appreciative” humbly and respectfully. Anyhow, please stop flatrering me. My face is turning red out of embarrassement here. Do not humiliate :-) me no more huh, please, very please with money :-) on top huh!
By the way, can you come to this forum as often as you can to give me a hand, sweetie?
I thank you so much in advance darling!
===========================================================When you meet a worthy person, seek to become his equal.
When you meet a fool, look within and examine yourself. (Confucius)
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